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Meanings of Love

已有 110 次阅读2009-8-8 10:13 |

We'd like to share some of the positive meanings love has for us.

Love means that I know the person I wow power level love. I'm aware of the many sides of the other person — not just the beautiful side but also the limitations, inconsistencies and faults. I have an awareness of the other's feelings and thoughts, and I  experience something of the core of that person. I can penetrate social masks and roles and see the other person on a deeper level.

Love means that I care about the welfare of the person I love. To the extent that it is genuine, my caring is not possessive, nor does it hold the wow power leveling other person back. On the contrary, my caring frees both of us. If I care about you, I'm concerned about your growth, and I hope you will become all that you can become. Consequently, I don't put up obstacles to what you do that enhances you as a person, even though it may result in my discomfort at times.

Love means having respect for the dignity of the person I love. If I love you, I can see you as a separate person, with your own  values and thoughts and feelings, and I do not insist that you surrender your identity to match an image of what I power leveling expect you to be for me. I can allow and encourage you to stand alone and to be who you are, and I avoid treating you as an object or using you primarily to satisfy my own needs.

Love means having a responsibility toward the person I love. If I love you, I respond to most of your major needs as a person. This responsibility does not include my doing for you what you are capable of doing for yourself; nor does it  mean that I run your life for you. It does mean acknowledging that what I am and what I do affects you, so that I am directly involved in your happiness and your suffering. A lover does have the capacity to hurt or ignore the loved one, and in this sense we see that love involves an acceptance of some responsibility for the impact my way of being has on you.

Love means making a commitment to the wow gold person I love. This commitment does not mean surrendering our total selves to each other; nor does it imply that the  relationship is necessarily permanent. It does involve a willingness to stay with each wow leveling alliance other in times of pain, struggle, and despair, as well as in times of calm and enjoyment.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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